There was a discussion the other night on Declan Carty's Late Night Whatever programme on Newstalk (I actually really enjoy it, though the full name escapes me) about child sex-abuse. I only come on it towards the end but one of the points which I hadn't thought of, but which makes a lot of sense is one made by Michael Mc Loughlin was that the vast majority of child-sex abuse occurs at the hands of someone who is known to the victim, often someone within the family and in those cases, some way of coping with it as a family is very important - some of the more lethal suggestions just don't work in those circumstances because families want everyone to be as well as possible and they want to function as normally as possible.
I also came across an article today while I was going through old magazines and newspapers about Pitcairn Island near New Zealand where half the adult male population was jailed in 2003 for sexually abusing the children of the island. Interestingly many of the women there were very angry with the victims who spoke out, saying that it's part of the culture for men to have sex with girls as young as 12. I'm not saying they're right (before anyone bursts a blood vessel), I'm simply pointing out that not all cultures even today share the same views that we do about the age of consent. Their own law, such as it is, would not have seen them prosecuted or convicted and the men, understandably, didn't want to be tried under British law because they felt it had no jurisdiction.
There were 32 women abused as girls -almost half the population of the island.
The men got what would be considered by our standards, very lenient punishments. The former mayor, for example, got a three year sentence for five rapes.